guides

Thanks so much to all of you who helped to make it happen!

Our crowdfunding campaign was such a great ride full of wonderful responses and inspiring conversations. What a way to start the holidays! We can’t wait to give access to our new app to all of you who pre-ordered courses or resource packages as a gift to yourself or someone else.

7 tips for making compliments that hit home

With a bit of wit, charm, and a whole lot of love, we can sweep the beloved people in our lives (or even complete strangers?) off their...

Feb 14, 2024

9 ways that mind-wandering can spruce up your relationships and sex life

By focusing too much on efficiency, you are depriving yourself of the brain processes that can do wonders for your intimate/sex life...

Feb 3, 2024

Principles for consensual communication

Why we struggle with consent. How consensual communication can be arousing. How self-consent is the ultimate start. And more!

Oct 19, 2022

15 tips for great kissing experiences

Kissing is a lot like dancing. It’s all about: presence, connection, embodiment and variety. Get inspired for some very enjoyable smooching!

Jul 6, 2022

Musical aphrodisiac

How our favourite tunes can turn us on and enhance our sexual experience. The effect on our body and the socio-psychological impact...

Jun 17, 2022

7 ways to invest in intimacy exploration

Today is #HigherEducationDay. Our governments never invested properly in our education in the area of intimate relationships and...

Jun 6, 2022

Break out of the stress = less sex cycle

The conundrum: Any type of sex - including self-pleasuring or having sex with another person - can be a very effective way to release...

Jun 3, 2022

Your sexuality is unique

Most of what we hear about sexuality and intimacy throughout our lives tells us that there are “normal” and “better” - or even “right” and “

May 24, 2022

Choosing a sex toy

There is a massive number of sex toys on the market. If you are interested in getting one use this guide to work out what's right for you.

Jun 25, 2021

Creating a stimulating context

Identify what factors "turn you on" and "turn you off" to stimulate the frequency or intensity of your sexual desire and arousal.

Jun 25, 2021

Cliteracy #4: Clitoral Stimulation

Curious to see what a clitoral erection looks and feels like? Here is a brief guide to exploring and stimulating that magnificent pleasure..

Feb 9, 2021

Cliteracy #3: Clitoral ERECTION

It’s high time that people with female genitals claim the word erection! Many people with female genitalia go through life not knowing...

Feb 6, 2021

Cliteracy #2: The clitoris is HUGE

The clitoris is HUGE. About 90% of it is located under the skin, and it can be up to 10 centimeters long.

Jan 30, 2021

Cliteracy #1: The word clitoris

The word ‘clitoris’ derives from the Greek ‘kleitoris’, however its meaning has undergone much speculation over the years.

Jan 23, 2021